Sideline or End Zone? Which Are You?

Are you a sideline chic or an end zone queen? If you ever notice, the people standing along the sidelines are just waiting for their turn to get in the game or just wishing they’d get called to play. If you look at the anxiousness or disappointment in their faces, then you’d understand where I’m going with this. That’s the same look of anxiousness or disappointment of sideline chics when they’re waiting on a dude to call them back after they’ve given up the cookies too soon. That’s the same look of disappointment of a sideline chic that has to wait for the dude to finish playing with his other chics to make time for you. The sideline chic has to sit back and wait for sloppy seconds. Sometimes she may have to watch as her dude treats the end zone queen like the royal highness she wishes he’d treat her. The sideline chic hardly ever gets to spend holidays with her dude. If she does, it’ll be later that evening or night.

The end zone queen is the one he runs to or seeks after. She’s the most prized possession. The end zone queen gets celebrated, not humiliated. She gets several dances and cheers. The end zone queen gets crowned, not clowned! She is revered, not frowned upon. The end zone queen gets to meet family and friends. She also gets more quality time, phone calls, and gifts on time. The end zone queen is cherished for years to come, as her king has had to fight his way to make it to her throne and claim her as his own. The end zone queen is a challenge for the king, not an easy target as the sideline chic tends to be. If it’s easily given, then it can be easily taken away. The end zone is not so easy to reach. The king has to slay many dragons and knock down several opponents before reaching his end zone queen. No matter what it takes, he is in the game for the long haul, trying to reach his end zone destination while avoiding his sideline distractions. The sideline chic is only momentary, but the end zone queen is and always will be the permanent goal to reach. The end zone queen is and always will be his main focus.