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Mindset Matters: Minds Blown/Free from Being Dickmatized

https://youtu.be/stuySQv7qw4 Ladies, don't get Dickmatized (sprung on a man's sexual performance), caught up in unhealthy soul ties... Wondering why... You can't let go Wondering why... You can't  grow You can't find Mr. Right when you keep running to Mr. Wrong. Yes, I know he got your mind blown off the way he put it down in the bedroom, but if that's the only place y'all hang out & explore...then it's time for you to explore & Get Gone! Time to explore your options by redirecting your focus. When you focus on what it is you truly want, then you'll be better equipped to make wiser decisions. We can't always see clearly when we're in the clouds, mesmerized by the "D". Gotta see past that & get to the mental & spiritual side of each other. Being dickmatized is another form of addiction, whereas you find yourself daydreaming & craving more of the temporary fix. By always allowing him to come on through fo

Leave No Money on the Table

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Greetings on this Wonderful Wednesday! Here's my TIP for today: Leave NO Money on the Table! When doors of opportunity knock, you need to be available to answer. I have been in the Healthcare Industry for the past 9 years, working in Accounts Receivables, and too many times I see doctors leaving "money on the table". All because his/her staff failed to do their job or go above & beyond to do their due diligence to bring in the Revenue! Case in point: I fight with health insurance companies all day to get claims paid. When I tell you most of the trends I find are Front End issues, you would not believe it! Doctors are losing so much money (I'm talking hundreds of thousands of dollars, maybe millions) because of lazy or incompetent staff among various other reasons. Due to New HIPAA Laws, All providers (doctors) must have a unique National Provider Identification Number (NPI) on file with various medical insurance carriers. Well, in most cases, the issue I

Why Did You Quit?

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Last week my husband asked me a question: "Why did you quit those jobs years ago when you were with your ex-husband?" My Answer: "I was young & naive. " He was referring to the time when I worked two jobs. Yep, I worked two jobs at one point in my life...when I was single. I had dreams & visions of getting the things I wanted in life, by doing what I had to do. We continued the conversation, and I elaborated by explaining how a certain disagreement forced me to quit one of the jobs. Furthermore, I had already quit the first job due to time. You see, I made the decision to let one of the jobs go in order to spend more time with the person I was involved with at the time. I won't go into all the details of what went wrong & how that relationship ended, but I will say this... In life, we all must make choices, of which can determine how the rest of your life can play out. Had I stuck to my plans prior to that relationship & several others, m